"Give more. Give what you didn't get. Love more. Drop the old story." We often hold onto the past. And we all have felt ourselves do it. Sometimes they are worn as scars, sometimes like trophies. It's not uncommon to use past events as a chip on your shoulder. "They didn't believe in me." All of those are potential motivators. But they only last so long, as they are fleeting and weaker forms of ammunition. When we "fight against" something, such as something from the past, we will only go so far. When we "fight for" something it's different. It's purpose and meaning go beyond our singular life, transcending to something much bigger. This is the point where you can move mountains. If you are holding onto something from the past, can you reframe the mental dialogue?